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'The cruellest injustice': Abuser jailed but victim will never be free of the damage he caused

Author
Tracy Neal,
Publish Date
Sun, 13 Apr 2025, 3:53pm
Kenneth Alderton has been sentenced to 13 years in prison for sexually abusing three young victims over 24 years. Photo / 九一星空无限 image
Kenneth Alderton has been sentenced to 13 years in prison for sexually abusing three young victims over 24 years. Photo / 九一星空无限 image

'The cruellest injustice': Abuser jailed but victim will never be free of the damage he caused

Author
Tracy Neal,
Publish Date
Sun, 13 Apr 2025, 3:53pm

Warning: This story deals with sexual abuse and may be upsetting.

  • Kenneth John Alderton has been sent to prison for 13 years for decades of  against three children.
  • He was finally caught after one of  posted an incident on social media, and others came forward.
  • Judge Jane Forrest highlighted the victims鈥 vulnerability and the scale of Alderton鈥檚 offences.

A game of hide-and-seek more than 30 years ago was the end of one woman鈥檚 childhood.

Locked in an outhouse with Kenneth John Alderton, having been lured reluctantly by the promise of a game with other children, the 7-year-old鈥檚 fate was sealed when she was told to cover her eyes.

鈥淐lose your eyes and count,鈥 he said.

鈥淚 wanted to believe it was just an innocent game of hide and go seek, but I knew deep down that something was wrong,鈥 Abigail* said.

She was afraid of him, having already been threatened with a 鈥渉iding鈥 if she whispered a word of the night when she was aged about 6 and he, aged in his mid-20s, tried to take off her underwear as she slept in a lounge full of other children.

Kenneth Alderton has been sent to prison for 13 years for sexual offending against three young children over the course of 24 years.
Kenneth Alderton has been sent to prison for 13 years for sexual offending against three young children over the course of 24 years.

The indecent act that followed in the outhouse brought her to tears and a warning from Alderton that no one would believe her if she told anyone. They would believe only him.

And that is what happened.

鈥淚 walked out of that outhouse forever changed,鈥 she said.

When she tried to tell other people about what happened to her in the years between 1991 to 1994, she was accused of lying and was beaten and abused for speaking up.

Facing her abuser

Abigail faced Alderton in a room of the Manukau District Court where he was sentenced to 13 years in prison this week, and delivered a eulogy to her childhood, which died decades ago.

She said in her victim impact statement that the damage caused by adults who chose to protect Alderton over her was immeasurable.

While she raged over no one doing anything out of 鈥渂iased loyalties鈥, she also learned that by keeping quiet, she was only harming herself.

Abigail told 九一星空无限 outside court that the tables were finally turned when she took to social media, enraged over an incident she had witnessed.

鈥淚 just laid bare what he had done to me.鈥

One of Kenneth Alderton's victims says that while she raged over no one having protected her, she learned that by keeping quiet, she was only harming herself.
One of Kenneth Alderton's victims says that while she raged over no one having protected her, she learned that by keeping quiet, she was only harming herself.

She never anticipated what would happen next, but it was the catalyst for others to come forward, and the mother of one of the other victims immediately went to the police.

鈥淭hat caused a ripple effect because as soon as she went to the police, I was like, 鈥業 have to go too鈥.鈥

Alderton was arrested soon after.

It only partly dampened the guilt she felt through not being able to stop him from destroying the lives of other innocent children.

鈥淚 had convinced myself he could never harm anyone else; however, as we have all discovered, that was not the case.鈥

Drowning in a puddle of sadness

Alderton went on to violate another young child between 2006 and 2008. This time the victim was half the age of Abigail.

That victim described the offending it in her victim impact statement, read on her behalf, as the 鈥渢ornado鈥 that had wrecked her childhood.

鈥淕rowing up, he made me think keeping secrets was normal,鈥 when in reality, she was 鈥渄rowning in a puddle of sadness鈥.

He locked the child in a garage and blindfolded her, telling her they were 鈥済oing to play pool鈥. It led to a representative charge of sexual violation by unlawful sexual connection when it was revealed he had offended against the child at least 12 other times.

Defence lawyer Shane Tait challenged the evidence of a child so young and how well her memory might have served her.

鈥淗ow much weight do we place on that?鈥 he asked at sentencing.

But there had been little doubt in the jury鈥檚 mind, which Judge Jane Forrest reiterated had found Alderton guilty last November.

His third victim from 2013 to 2015 was a child aged between 6 and 7, when he was in his mid-to-late 40s.

She was woken one night by him covering her mouth with one hand and indecently touching her with his other hand while telling her to be quiet.

It progressed to him later playing a game, 鈥済uess the object鈥, which began with a bottle of beer as she was blindfolded.

He later showed her the pornography he was watching on his laptop as he placed his hands down the child鈥檚 pants, but he quickly stopped when his partner came into the room.

鈥淚 am satisfied from the evidence that this occurred,鈥 Judge Forrest said.

She said in sentencing Alderton the aggravating factors were the victims鈥 vulnerability, the scale of the offending, and the degree of violation.

Neither did she accept that the offending was spontaneous because of the patterns involved, including the efforts made to isolate his victims.

The jury swiftly delivered its verdict for offences against the children that spanned 24 years.

Alderton was also found guilty on two further charges of performing an indecency with a girl under 12 and four charges of indecent assault on a child under 12.

Stolen childhood

Now, all these decades on, Alderton is in prison, and Abigail can start to bury the demons that have chased her.

Throughout the trial, Abigail said she listened as she was unfairly painted as the instigator of some 鈥渆laborate, baseless vendetta鈥 against Alderton and those around him.

鈥淜enneth Alderton stole my childhood. He stole years of my life. And he has never once shown remorse for it,鈥 she said.

Judge Forrest said in sentencing him it was gruelling listening to the harm caused, but what was particularly distressing was that the victim, who as a child, was not believed when she flagged what had happened.

Crown prosecutor Sophie Bicknell said with two of the victims, the majority of the offending had involved skin-on-skin contact.

The Crown sought a sentence of 12 years with a two-year uplift, or 14 years total.

Where Bicknell differed with the defence over the sentencing starting point was the frequency of the offending and questions around Alderton having shown one of the victims pornography.

Tait also raised points over the first victim鈥檚 statement that referenced the outhouse, which he said had not been tested in cross-examination.

Judge Forrest landed on a sentence of 11 years, plus a two-year uplift, after summarising the facts of the case, which mentioned what had happened in the outhouse during the game of hide-and-seek.

鈥淪he cried, 鈥業 don鈥檛 want to do this 鈥 I want to go, and again you said, 鈥榥o one will believe you, they will believe me鈥,鈥 Judge Forrest said.

She said it was not appropriate to consider 鈥済ood character鈥 as a discount in sentencing Alderton because of the extent of the offending over decades.

鈥淭here are no personal mitigating factors in the circumstances,鈥 she said.

Sentence 鈥榚xceeded expectations鈥

Abigail told 九一星空无限 the sentence exceeded her expectations.

She said it had been disheartening in the years leading up to their case, reading news articles about the plight of others in similar situations, where the offender had been 鈥渓et off lightly鈥.

鈥淣one of us expected a sentence like this.鈥

Another of the victims has found it within herself to forgive, because 鈥渉ate is just another shadow that will condemn me鈥.

However, for Abigail, the wound may never fully heal. Trauma doesn鈥檛 just 鈥渄isappear鈥, it seeps into every single part of your life, she said.

鈥淲hat scares me most is that he still refuses to admit what he is. How can someone ever change if they won鈥檛 even acknowledge their crimes? How can society be safe when he won鈥檛 accept the truth about himself?鈥

A day after sentencing, Abigail was still 鈥渘umb鈥 from the effort it had taken to bring Alderton to justice and the relationships it had destroyed.

鈥淚 don鈥檛 know what to feel in the fact that the story has been swept under the rug for so long.

鈥淔or me, I never pictured a life where this was going to be my new reality, that this was going to be something that was out in the open, that everyone would know what he was.鈥

Abigail said she now had a lot of adjusting to do, to a 鈥渘ew normal鈥, but in a good way.

But it was going to take time.

鈥淣o matter how many years he is sentenced to, he will one day walk free. But we will never be free from the damage he has caused.

鈥淲e will carry this with us for the rest of our lives. And that is the cruellest injustice of all. 鈥

*Name changed to protect the victim鈥檚 identity.

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Tracy Neal is a Nelson-based Open Justice reporter at 九一星空无限. She was previously RNZ鈥檚 regional reporter in Nelson-Marlborough and has covered general news, including court and local government for the Nelson Mail.

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