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'Eyes glowing with hatred': Victim bashed in Grindr ambush

Author
Sandra Conchie,
Publish Date
Sat, 15 Feb 2025, 9:12am
Ryan William Purves, 18, was sentenced in Tauranga District Court after admitting his role in a "hate crime" attack involving a gay man. Photo / Sandra Conchie
Ryan William Purves, 18, was sentenced in Tauranga District Court after admitting his role in a "hate crime" attack involving a gay man. Photo / Sandra Conchie

'Eyes glowing with hatred': Victim bashed in Grindr ambush

Author
Sandra Conchie,
Publish Date
Sat, 15 Feb 2025, 9:12am

Warning: This article contains distressing content. 

A group of 鈥樷檈vil鈥' young men whose eyes were 鈥樷檊lowing with hatred鈥' attacked a gay man, called him a 鈥樷檖aedophile鈥' and filmed it after luring him to a Tauranga house using a fake profile on the dating app Grindr. 

The 鈥樷檋umiliated鈥' victim says it was a 鈥渉ate crime鈥 and begged for them to stop as members of the group taunted, abused, threatened and assaulted him - including one swinging a piece of wood at him and another threatening to throw bottles at him. 

One of the group - Ryan William Purves, 18, of Tauranga - repeatedly kicked the victim and when police arrived, stood in front of a female constable with clenched fists and told her: 鈥樷橧 will f***ing punch you in the face b***h鈥欌. 

He later failed to attend a restorative justice meeting. 

Purves this week appeared in Tauranga District Court after pleading guilty to assault and assaulting police - he was sentenced to community work and supervision. 

The victim, who has permanent name suppression, said in his victim impact statement it was a 鈥渉ate crime鈥 and he feared he would die. He still had nightmares and panic attacks. 

He was 鈥渓ured, ambushed, attacked, abused and threatened鈥 - something he would never forget. 

鈥淚 was surrounded by ... strangers in the dark, not knowing their intentions. I really thought I was going to die because this was a strategic ambush, assault and an attack ... all whilst being recorded on cellphones by a few of the offenders, whilst I was begging for this to stop,鈥 he said. 

鈥淚 will never forget their faces, although it was dark I could see and feel the evil in their eyes glowing with hatred.鈥 

The victim felt 鈥渉umiliated and terrified鈥 and would be 鈥渟carred for life鈥 and held a lot of hatred for those responsible for the 鈥渃owardly attack鈥. 

鈥淚 know this was a hate crime as I was targeted due to my inclusion in the gay community, and was purposely ambushed through the well-known Grindr app platform for the gay community to meet up.鈥 

The victim said he had been prescribed sleeping pills and depression medication and was having flashbacks, panic attacks and nightmares. 

The fact they filmed it and the possibility that a video recording of the attack still exists 鈥樷檞ill hang over my head for the rest of my life鈥. 

The police summary 

Police said the group had been drinking alcohol and created a false profile for an 18-year-old male on Grindr, which is predominantly used to meet gay men. 

The victim was also using the app and there was a match. 

One of Purves鈥 co-offenders invited the victim to meet at a Tauranga address. 

When the victim arrived, he was met at the end of the driveway by a male he believed to be the person he was communicating with. 

The male told him no one else was home and invited him inside. The victim followed him, but Purves and others in his group surrounded him and recorded him on their phones. 

Purves and the other young men yelled at the victim and called him a derogatory name for a gay person. 

They accused him of 鈥渢rying to hook up with a 15-year-old boy鈥, saying: 鈥漌e鈥檝e caught ourselves a paedophile" - despite the fake profile on Grinder being for an 18-year-old. 

The victim called 111 but could not hear the call-taker due to Purves and the others yelling abuse. 

Purves kicked the victim鈥檚 right leg below the knee and kicked him again as he walked down the driveway. 

The group continued to taunt and yell abuse at the victim as he tried to escape. 

One offender pushed the victim, making him stumble, and made an obscene bodily gesture, then swung a piece of timber towards him, missing him. 

As the victim tried to get into his car, the males surrounded him again and Purves kicked him. 

Another offender held empty beer bottles in each hand and threatened to throw them at the victim. 

Police said all of this was recorded on phones and when police arrived, Purves stood in front of a female constable with clenched fists and told her: 鈥樷橧 will f***ing punch you in the face, b***h鈥. 

Sergeant Sean Brennan asked Judge Paul Geoghegan to consider the assault against the male victim a hate crime under the Sentencing Act 2022. 

Defence lawyer鈥檚 submissions 

Purves鈥 lawyer, Rynae Butler, urged Judge Geoghegan to impose supervision and community detention instead of the pre-sentence report recommendation of supervision and community work because of her client鈥檚 work commitments. 

Butler said Purves had been stood down from work as he needed a limited licence due to a recent drink-driving conviction and that matter would be decided in the next few weeks. 

Purves could do community work but taking more time off work was likely to 鈥渁dd some strain鈥 to his employment relationship with his boss. 

She said it was acknowledged the attack was 鈥渟erious in nature鈥 and the victim鈥檚 vulnerability was significant as there were multiple offenders. 

Purves had told her that he did not remember much as he was 鈥渧ery intoxicated鈥 and only learned from the others about using Grindr to find the victim minutes before he arrived. 

鈥淚 am submitting that there is a limited degree of premeditation for Mr Purves鈥 role in this matter.鈥 

Butler said she also disputed this was a hate crime in respect of her client鈥檚 offending and that his actions were not motivated by hostility and harm towards the gay community. 

Purves took 鈥渇ull responsibility鈥 for his actions and instructed her that what was foremost in his mind was his thought that this was 鈥渁 legitimate way to use violence on someone who he had perceived was criminal offending鈥. 

She said her client did not attend a restorative justice meeting because his phone was damaged and then lost. 

鈥淢r Purves is remorseful for what has happened to the victim and for the victim鈥檚 disappointment understandably for not turning up for the meeting.鈥 

Purves had 鈥済ood rehabilitative prospects鈥 and she urged the judge to also take into account her client鈥檚 age, long-standing drinking issues, early guilty pleas, and the positive aspects outlined in the pre-sentence report. 

Judge Paul Geoghegan. Photo / Andrew Warner.Judge Paul Geoghegan. Photo / Andrew Warner. 

Judge Geoghegan鈥檚 comments 

Judge Geoghegan said the attack was 鈥樷檇espicable鈥. 

Part of the Sentencing Act refers to an 鈥樷榓ggravating feature of offending as being when the offender committed the offence partly or wholly because of hostility towards a group of persons who had 鈥渁n enduring common characteristic鈥 such as race, colour, nationality, religion, gender identity, sexual orientation, age or disability, and the hostility is because of the common characteristic, and the offender believed the victim had that characteristic鈥. 

The judge said there was 鈥渘o doubt鈥 Purves and his friends intended to lure someone in the gay community to the property to humiliate, abuse and assault them. 

鈥淚 am unsure whether it was motivated purely by hostility because you are a group of young men who had been drinking, but whatever possessed you to engage in this sort of act is just beyond me.鈥 

He said the victim described Purves as 鈥渆vil鈥 but he did not see him that way. 

鈥淏ut I see you as a young man ... who made a terrible decision that night and didn鈥檛 have the strength of character to stand up to those you were with and say, 鈥楴o, we should not do this鈥.鈥 

He said Purves鈥 return to work when he had a limited licence was a positive factor and noted he was assessed at low risk of reoffending. 

鈥淏ut disturbingly, the [pre-sentence] report stated that Purves had few insights around his offending and he reported having little memory regarding specific details. That may well be the case but I鈥檓 not sure. 

鈥淒ue to seeing numerous social media videos of people dealing out vigilante justice, you refer to the report writer that it sounded exciting. 

鈥淎nd if anything this is a message to you and young people like you or others interested in using social media in this way that there will be a consequence.鈥 

The assault charge carried a maximum penalty of a year in prison and the assault on police charge six months in prison. The judge sentenced Purves to 120 hours of community work and 12 months of supervision. 

Two accused co-offenders remain before the district court. 

Sandra Conchie is a senior journalist at the Bay of Plenty Times and Rotorua Daily Post who has been a journalist for 24 years. She mainly covers police, court and other justice stories, as well as general news. She has been a Canon Media Awards regional/community reporter of the year. 

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