The father of a teenager shot dead at a party has addressed the man who fired the fatal shot, telling him he feels sorry for him.
鈥淚 know you didn鈥檛 mean to kill my son.鈥
Connor Whitehead, 16, was shot dead in the northern Christchurch suburb of Casebrook on November 5, 2021.
In May, Daniel Nelson Sparks and Joshua David Craig Smith, were found not guilty of murder but guilty of manslaughter.
On Friday the two men were sentenced in the High Court by Justice Melanie Harland. Three others are also being sentenced - Kelly Archbold, Nicholas Mckay, and another woman who has interim name suppression - after admitting to being accessories after the fact and helping the men avoid arrest.
Connor Whitehead's father, James Whitehead. Photo / George Heard.
Smith, who fired the fatal shot, was jailed for seven years. Sparks was jailed for six years, three months..
At the beginning of sentencing, the victim impact statements were read.
Whitehead鈥檚 father, James Whitehead told the court it鈥檚 the future Connor he thinks about so often.
聽鈥淲hat kind of man he would鈥檝e been.鈥
Having to tell his oldest daughter, followed by Connor鈥檚 mum and other siblings about his death was 鈥渢he worst thing I ever had to do in my life鈥.
Connor Whitehead was an innocent bystander when he was shot dead at a party.
From the time Connor was killed until the time he was buried time was 鈥渄istorted鈥.
鈥淓very moment blurred together, one long-painful day,鈥 he said.
鈥淚t was a small comfort to us that just before he came home to us, police had apprehended those responsible. Our boy was coming home, those monsters had been caught.鈥
Since then he had been asking himself what he had done to deserve this.
There were reminders of Connor everywhere and his room remained unchanged.
鈥淣ow it鈥檚 cold and empty鈥 they鈥檝e taken the warmth out of my life,鈥 he said.
鈥淗e was my baby boy.鈥
Connor鈥檚 death had 鈥渢ainted鈥 every element of his life.
He finished by addressing Sparks and Smith.
From left, Joshua Smith, and Daniel Sparks. Photo / George Heard.
Hold Sparks as soon as he took the guns to the party he appointed himself, 鈥渏udge, jury and executioner鈥.
鈥淵ou were judge, jury and an idiot,鈥 James Whitehead said.
鈥淚 still fail to understand why anyone would take guns to a party. This is not the Wild West, this is not America.鈥
He said his apparent lack of remorse spoke volumes and he 鈥渟hould be ashamed of yourself鈥.
He then addressed Smith.
鈥淵ou pulled the trigger of the gun鈥 you ended my son鈥檚 life.
Connor Whitehead's mother, Cheryl Mirren. Photo / George Heard.
鈥淚 should hate you, I don鈥檛. I take pity on you, I feel sorry for you.鈥
He respected his remorse and the genuine emotion he showed including a letter to the family.
鈥淚 know you didn鈥檛 mean to kill my son鈥 the unavoidable fact is you did, get help, get better friends,鈥 he said.
鈥淐onnor forever.鈥
Connor鈥檚 mother, Cheryl Mirren said Connor was 鈥渁n old soul, a deep-thinker鈥.
鈥淐onnor was cheeky and confident, and what a great moral compass, never afraid to stand up for himself or his friends.
鈥淗e was my wee rebel, even though at 6ft3 he wasn鈥檛 wee.鈥
People 鈥済ravitated鈥 to Connor, and his 鈥渓aid-back nature鈥.
鈥淔rom the moment we realised Connor was never coming home. The world we knew, the life we knew died, nothing will ever be right again.鈥
Since Connor鈥檚 death, she had stopped working.
鈥淚鈥檝e tried to go back on and off since then but every time I鈥檝e left home I鈥檝e worried about Connor鈥檚 brother and sister. I worry that they will be by themselves and I鈥檓 still not at the point where I can leave them there for long-extended times on their own.鈥
She then spoke to Sparks and Smith.
鈥淚t鈥檚 pretty obvious by your actions that our morals, integrity, and character all need work鈥.. I hope it eats away at you every single day forever,鈥 she said.
鈥淲e can never escape the consequence of your actions, none of you should either.鈥
Connor鈥檚 older sister, Cordelia Whitehead, who was 17 when he was killed said the time since had been the 鈥渉ardest time of my life鈥.
鈥淕rowing up without my little brother and not being able to see him grow and see all the milestones he will hit is something I could never imagine becoming a reality,鈥 she said.
鈥淚 wish you were here more than anything.鈥
She remembers seeing Connor when he came home from the funeral home, his face 鈥減ale and lifeless鈥.
鈥淚t broke my heart to see him like that.鈥
Connor鈥檚 aunt, Angela Whitehead, told the court how she helped raise him when he was a baby while he lived with her and her two children.
鈥淐onnor was like a baby brother to them, he was like a son to me. I remember vividly when Connor was learning to talk, he would mimic my children, calling me mum鈥︹
She said Connor was 鈥渢he funniest little guy鈥.
鈥淚鈥檓 so proud to have played a part in his upbringing, he was the kindest, sweetest boy you鈥檇 ever meet.鈥
One of her favourite memories of Connor was the day he became a big brother. She took him to Northlands Mall while they waited for his sister to arrive.
Connor ate some sushi while wearing a Spiderman hat. She showed a photograph of him eating sushi to the court.
Justice Melanie Harland. Photo / George Heard.
She spent some time with Connor in 2021, and was 鈥渟o thrilled with the man he was becoming鈥.
She recalled the moment she was told by Connor鈥檚 father he had been shot and killed.
鈥淢y world turned black. All I could picture was that beautiful little boy in his Spiderman hat eating sushi.鈥
Angela Whitehead then addressed the two men as they sat in the dock. She called Sparks a 鈥減athetic little man鈥.
She told Smith she saw his tears and 鈥渁pparent remorse鈥.
鈥淚 do believe you feel bad for killing Connor,鈥 she said.
鈥淵ou asked if he was a good kid, he was the best.鈥
Smith cried as she finished her statement.
Connor鈥檚 youngest sister, Emma, had a recording of her victim impact statement played to the court. She was 11 at the time of his death.
鈥淵ou should be here annoying me like an older brother does,鈥 she said.
鈥淐onnor was my big brother and I loved him so much.鈥
She and Connor would play video games together, and he would teach her dances he had learned.
鈥淗e could always cheer me up when I was sad.鈥
鈥淣ow that I鈥檓 older I鈥檝e learned the world isn鈥檛 as safe as I thought it was because there are people like you out there.鈥
She had not heard the full story of what happened to Connor, as her mother told her she was not old enough to hear it. She was not scared to go out alone and was afraid she would be hurt.
鈥淢y family will never be the same, all because of you.鈥
鈥榃orst consequences imaginable鈥
Crown prosecutor Barnaby Hawes said while the jury found Smith did not act with murderous intent, both men were 鈥渞esponsible鈥 for what happened.
Precisely what occurred the night of Connor鈥檚 death will never be known, Hawes said.
鈥淲hat is known is these two men armed themselves with lethal weapons, travelled to the address where the party was held, and both fired shots.鈥
Their actions led to the 鈥渨orst consequences imaginable鈥.
鈥淭his offending was not spontaneous or impulsive... a considered decision to take armed weapons to the party,鈥 he said.
Hawes said there were several aggravating factors including Connor鈥檚 vulnerability, the recklessness, and the men鈥檚 actions after the shooting including fleeing the scene and attempting to dispose of the weapons.
Smith鈥檚 lawyer, James Rapley KC, said Connor鈥檚 killing was 鈥渟enseless and should never have happened鈥.
鈥淣o sentence this court could impose will cure the hurt of Connor鈥檚 killing.
鈥淭here鈥檚 no way to restore or heal what has been taken from his family and friends.鈥
He asked the court to impose a sentence that reflected the jury鈥檚 verdict and his culpability.
鈥淢r Smith did not intend for Connor to die, he did not intend to hurt him. He did not intend to hurt anyone.鈥
He said Smith offered to plead guilty to manslaughter earlier in February 2022, which was declined. He made another offer in January this year.
Sparks鈥 lawyer, Donald Matthews, said his client was 鈥済enuinely sorry鈥 for what happened. Has thought about what happened every day.
鈥淭his weighs on him very heavily.鈥
He said there should be some 鈥渟mall differentiation鈥 in the starting points between Smith and Sparks given he did not fire the fatal shot.
Justice Harland then began her sentencing remarks by acknowledging Connor鈥檚 death and said what happened was 鈥渢ragic鈥 and 鈥渆xtremely distressing鈥.
She addressed Smith and said the aggravating features were first and foremost the 鈥渆xtreme violence and serious harm鈥 that occurred as a result of his actions.
鈥淚鈥檓 not persuaded your offending was truly spontaneous or impulsive鈥.
She did not accept he did not know the firearms were loaded.
鈥淎t any point during the incident, you could鈥檝e driven off, but you did not do so.鈥
It was 鈥済rossly reckless鈥 to fire a shot the way he did, she said.
She did accept he did not know someone was shot or killed when he fled the scene.
鈥淚n my view, your actions once you found out Connor had been killed... are all aggravating factors.鈥
She said Smith had an 鈥渆xtensive criminal history鈥, with 136 convictions, the first when he was 17.
Justice Harland believed Smith was 鈥済enuine鈥 in his remorse for Connor鈥檚 death and jailed him for seven years.
She said Sparks also had an extensive criminal history. She accepted that since he was imprisoned following Connor鈥檚 death he had made 鈥渃onsiderable steps鈥 to turn his life around.
She said people expressed remorse in different ways, but it did not mean they were not remorseful. She believed he had expressed his remorse and that he wanted to say sorry but he did not think Connor鈥檚 family wanted to accept it from him.
鈥淚n my view, you are genuinely remorseful for your role in the offending.鈥
She jailed him for six years, three months.
James Whitehead, father of Connor Whitehead, outside court after a jury found two men guilty of manslaughter over his son's death. Photo / George Heard
鈥業nnocent bystander鈥
At trial, the Crown alleged both men responded to a call for help from Sparks鈥 son, as the party got out of control and he was threatened, by arming themselves with loaded firearms 鈥 a Stevens shotgun and a Mossberg shotgun 鈥 in Smith鈥檚 VW Golf.
About 11pm the two men arrived at the party. Sparks鈥 son pointed out the group of people acting aggressively towards him. Sparks approached them and there was a verbal argument. Gang signs were pulled and there was yelling.
Two shots were eventually fired, one from each of the firearms, one by each of the defendants.
The two shots were about six seconds apart. The Crown said the most likely scenario was that Smith fired the fatal shot that struck Whitehead and that Sparks fired a shot from the Mossberg into the air, likely from the car.
Whitehead was shot in the chest. His injuries were not survivable.
In his closing address at the trial, Smith鈥檚 defence counsel James Rapley KC, said the trial had been 鈥渄ifficult and distressing鈥.
鈥淐onnor Whitehead was totally innocent, his killing was shocking, senseless, and should never have happened,鈥 the lawyer said.
Smith accepted it was his fault and that he was responsible for Whitehead鈥檚 death, but that it was manslaughter, not murder.
鈥淢r Smith never intended to kill Connor. Mr Smith never intended to cause Connor harm, and he never thought that Connor or anyone else would be likely to die.鈥
He argued Smith was trying to scare and intimidate the uninvited partygoers.
He said why two grown men would take guns to a party was 鈥渉ard to fathom鈥 and was wrong, but just because they took them did not mean they intended to use them.
Smith was 鈥渞eckless鈥 and 鈥渇oolish鈥 in shooting the gun hoping the crowd would disperse, he said.
鈥淭he fact he caused Connor鈥檚 death does not make him guilty of murder,鈥 Rapley said.
鈥淢r Smith did not intend to shoot Connor, he intended to shoot away from the crowd in the street, he didn鈥檛 know when he shot the gun it was likely to cause death.鈥
Sparks鈥 defence counsel Donald Matthews said Whitehead鈥檚 death was an 鈥渁bsolutely senseless tragedy鈥.
鈥淲hen Mr Sparks answered his son鈥檚 call, he didn鈥檛 think that anyone would die. He didn鈥檛 intend for anyone to die, didn鈥檛 foresee anyone would die.鈥
Sparks could not and must not be found guilty of murder as a party, Matthews said.
After two days of deliberation, both men were found guilty of manslaughter.
Sam Sherwood is a Christchurch-based reporter who covers crime. He is a senior journalist who joined the听贬别谤补濒诲聽in 2022, and has worked as a journalist for 10 years.
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