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Former PM Jacinda Ardern and Clarke Gayford to marry this month

Author
Cherie Howie,
Publish Date
Thu, 4 Jan 2024, 9:34am

Former PM Jacinda Ardern and Clarke Gayford to marry this month

Author
Cherie Howie,
Publish Date
Thu, 4 Jan 2024, 9:34am

Former Prime Minister Dame Jacinda Ardern and fiance Clarke Gayford have been engaged since 2019, but called off their wedding ceremony amid the Covid-19 Omicron outbreak in January 2022. Will they get their happy day this summer?

There鈥檚 been coalition talks with Winston Peters, a Premiership, a baby, a pandemic, a landslide victory and a shock resignation - so a little old听wedding to her long time love听should be a stroll up the aisle for Dame Jacinda Ardern.

The听Herald听understands the former Prime Minister, 43, and her TV presenter beau Clarke Gayford, 47, will wed this month.

Gayford laughed听when the听Herald听asked about the nuptials this week.

鈥淚 can鈥檛 believe you thought you could call up and I鈥檇 just tell you all.鈥

The Gisborne native said he had 鈥渘othing to add鈥, while Ardern couldn鈥檛 be contacted.

Others with knowledge of the ceremony are also remaining tight-lipped about the wedding鈥檚 details.

But the Herald has been told the event will take place at a vineyard in Hawke鈥檚 Bay - more than 200km away from their originally planned ceremony which was scuttled by the Covid-19 pandemic.

No bookings to the public are available to the public on the day of the wedding in mid-January.

The invite list is set to feature many of Ardern鈥檚 former colleagues in the now-opposition Labour Party; including party leader Chris Hipkins.

The couple began dating in 2014 after Gayford, a marine enthusiast and host of听Fish of the Day听and听Moving Houses,听contacted the then-Labour list MP about proposed legislation in 2013.

Clarke Gayford and Jacinda Ardern first met at the Metro Restaurant Awards in 2012. They began dating in 2014.  Photo / Doug SherringClarke Gayford and Jacinda Ardern first met at the Metro Restaurant Awards in 2012. They began dating in 2014. Photo / Doug Sherring

Gayford popped the question five years later with his听grandmother鈥檚 ring on Mokotahi Hill in northern Hawke鈥檚 Bay, as Diplomatic Protection Service officers kept watch nearby and a local dog tried to eat the chocolate he鈥檇 packed for the occasion.

The cliff-top proposal came 10 months after the听birth of the couple鈥檚 daughter Neve听and 18 months after Ardern became the country鈥檚 second youngest Prime Minister when the then-Labour Party leader formed a coalition with Peters鈥-helmed NZ First.

They鈥檇 made no plans 鈥渁t all鈥 for the wedding, Ardern told media after news of the engagement broke almost two weeks after the Easter proposal, when a ring was spotted on her left middle finger during a ceremony at Pike River.

鈥淚 have absolutely no idea鈥, she said, when asked when the wedding would be.

Then-Prime Minister Jacinda Ardern and fiance Clarke Gayford pictured celebrating Labour's landslide election victory in 2020. 

Then-Prime Minister Jacinda Ardern and fiance Clarke Gayford pictured celebrating Labour's landslide election victory in 2020.

Her words would prove prescient.

Less than a year later the听Covid-19 pandemic kicked off a round of restrictions听that included lockdowns, border closures to those without citizenship or residency, and an at-times oversubscribed managed quarantine system for Kiwis coming home.

The couple鈥檚 wedding would eventually be booked for the 2022 summer, with the venue understood to be the farm homestead at Nick鈥檚 Head Station, 25km south of Gisborne.

Jacinda Ardern and Lorde embrace on stage after the then-Prime Minister presented the Grammy-winning Kiwi singer with the New Zealand Music Awards 2017 People's Choice Award. Photo / Norrie MontgomeryJacinda Ardern and Lorde embrace on stage after the then-Prime Minister presented the Grammy-winning Kiwi singer with the New Zealand Music Awards 2017 People's Choice Award. Photo / Norrie Montgomery

The luxury rural estate, at which Grammy Award-winner Lorde was also understood to be on hand to entertain the couple鈥檚 loved ones and friends, is owned by听US hedge fund billionaire John Griffin听and his wife Amy.

But the arrival of the Omicron variant in late January 2022 and subsequent move to the red traffic light system - which restricted gatherings to fewer than 100 - spoiled the pair鈥檚 plans.

鈥淪uch is life鈥, Ardern said of their decision to call off the wedding.

鈥淚 am no different to, dare I say, thousands of other New Zealanders.鈥

Jacinda Ardern and Clarke Gayford are parents to daughter Neve Gayford, pictured as the family walk to a memorial event for Queen Elizabeth in 2022. Neve was born eight months after her mum became Prime Minister. File photo / Mark MitchellJacinda Ardern and Clarke Gayford are parents to daughter Neve Gayford, pictured as the family walk to a memorial event for Queen Elizabeth in 2022. Neve was born eight months after her mum became Prime Minister. File photo / Mark Mitchell

The three-time Mt Albert MP had previously described herself as 鈥渢he least-engaged bride鈥, with Gayford in charge of organising the nuptials, but vowed there were no plans to delay their vows indefinitely.

When she听resigned as Prime Minister听almost a year ago, citing exhaustion, the bride-to-be included a special message to Gayford alongside promises to try and find ways to 鈥渒eep working for New Zealand鈥 and take Neve to her first day of school.

鈥淎nd to Clarke, let鈥檚 finally get married.鈥

Cherie Howie is an Auckland-based reporter who joined the Herald in 2011. She has been a journalist for more than 20 years and specialises in general news and features.

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