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‘A lovely boyfriend’: More women fall victim to Martin Henderson romance scam

Author
Kirsty Wynn,
Publish Date
Sat, 1 Mar 2025, 3:06pm

‘A lovely boyfriend’: More women fall victim to Martin Henderson romance scam

Author
Kirsty Wynn,
Publish Date
Sat, 1 Mar 2025, 3:06pm
  • Multiple women from around the world have poured money and emotions into ausing the image of former Shortland Street and Virgin River star Martin Henderson
  • The women have lost hundreds of thousands of dollars and dedicated years to the fake relationships
  •  not to engage with anyone reporting to be him on any social media

More women have fallen victim to a  leaving them heartbroken and out of pocket by tens of thousands of dollars.

Four women have contacted the Herald, after watching a video of Henderson last week warning people not to believe the scammers, saying they too had fallen victim to someone pretending to be the well-known Kiwi actor. One says her friend is a victim but still believes she is in a relationship with Henderson.

The Herald recently revealed an American fan of Henderson鈥檚 hit Netflix drama Virgin River had lost $375,000 thinking she was in a relationship with Henderson.

Lea had been in daily contact with the person for two years and recently moved to New Zealand to start a life with the

Messages shared with the Herald by Ally show the scammer's manipulation. Photo / SuppliedMessages shared with the Herald by Ally show the scammer's manipulation. Photo / Supplied

Henderson, in New Zealand filming season 5 of , hit out at scammers and urged fans to cease all contact with anyone saying they were him.

Now, another American woman, who wanted to be known only as Ally, has told the Herald she was also in daily contact with the scammer and had been in a relationship with him for a year.

She said the scammer was 鈥渢he first man I had talked to鈥 after the death of her boyfriend who was the 鈥渓ove of my life鈥 years earlier.

She transferred more than $120,000 through Venmo and Zelle over the year. The scammer told her he needed to buy tickets and make arrangements to be with her without his management knowing.

鈥淚 feel like an absolute idiot and can鈥檛 believe I have done this,鈥 Ally said.

鈥淢y sister would freak out if she knew when I have done.鈥

Ally said the scammer would message her each morning with promises they would be together soon.

鈥淗e was a lovely boyfriend 鈥 very attentive 鈥 but now I know it was all fake, playing on my emotions. I feel so stupid.鈥

The messages started on Telegram where the scammer had an account using Henderson鈥檚 name 鈥 complete with the authentic blue tick.

She has since learned the blue ticks can be doctored.

She only realised the relationship was fake when she watched Henderson鈥檚 message in the Herald.

鈥淗e also told me he couldn鈥檛 be with me in the States because he had an angioplasty surgery booked in New Zealand.鈥

Fellow American woman Nelly was told Martin couldn鈥檛 be with her because he was in hospital after his legs were injured in a 鈥渇reak accident鈥 when filming in Morocco.

Martin Henderson took a break from filming in Auckland last week to warn fans not to engage with anyone on social media claiming to be him.Martin Henderson took a break from filming in Auckland last week to warn fans not to engage with anyone on social media claiming to be him.

鈥淚 am speechlessly heartbroken and just need to find out the truth,鈥 the woman said in an email.

Lea was told 鈥淢artin鈥 couldn鈥檛 be with her because he had a heart attack and was in hospital in Johannesburg.

The scam is similar to one where AI-doctored images of Hollywood actor were used to trick a French woman out of $1.5 million.

Another woman based in Britain revealed her friend had also been scammed but still believes she is speaking to the real Henderson.

鈥淚 have shown her the articles and tried to convince her but she just gets angry and said she is speaking to the real Martin Henderson 鈥 she won鈥檛 hear any different.鈥

Another from Scotland emailed the Herald after realising she had been scammed. She had been sending her 鈥楳artin鈥 Apple gift cards. In return she received poetry and photos of Martin鈥檚 family in New Zealand.

Lea looks over some of the messages she received from the scammer over a two-year period. Photo / Sylvie WhinrayLea looks over some of the messages she received from the scammer over a two-year period. Photo / Sylvie Whinray

鈥淚 bought Christmas presents and even made artwork for him after the passing of his dog,鈥 the woman said.

鈥淗e said to me that he was going to come over to Scotland to buy a house for us both.鈥

In anweek, Henderson described the scams as 鈥渟ad and horrific鈥 and said his heart went out to the women scammed.

鈥淚t鈥檚 not a nice feeling to know someone has used your face and image and goodwill with fans and manipulated that relationship for something so sinister.鈥

Anthony Watson of Visa said fraud was one of the most prevalent and fastest-growing crimes, accounting for about 29% of offences.

鈥淎s Martin mentioned, scammers are using increasingly sophisticated methods to try to play on people鈥檚 emotions and fool you into sending them money.

鈥淚t only takes three seconds of audio to clone a voice using AI technology and create deepfake impersonations.鈥

Watson warned against trusting messages from unknown sources, clicking links in emails or over social media messages and said personal information should never be shared online.

鈥淚nformation can unfortunately be used to create convincing strategies by threat actors like what we have seen happen in this case.鈥

Kirsty Wynn is a senior journalist with more than 20 years of experience in Auckland newsrooms. She has covered everything from crime and social issues to property and consumer affairs.

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