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'Beacon of light': Family's 'powerful message' after 21yo dies at swimming hole

Author
Sandra Conchie,
Publish Date
Sat, 14 Dec 2024, 10:23am
Jontae Christopher Alden, 21, who died after jumping off a rock into the water at a Pori Pori swimming hole on  December 4. Photo / Krystle Harraway
Jontae Christopher Alden, 21, who died after jumping off a rock into the water at a Pori Pori swimming hole on December 4. Photo / Krystle Harraway

'Beacon of light': Family's 'powerful message' after 21yo dies at swimming hole

Author
Sandra Conchie,
Publish Date
Sat, 14 Dec 2024, 10:23am

Jontae Christopher Alden pulled a Superman pose as he jumped from a rock and soared through the air over a natural pool in the Wairoa River. 

It would be the last thing the Tauranga 21-year-old did; his life was cut tragically short moments later. 

Jontae was unresponsive when his best friend, Sammy Goodwin, pulled him from the Pori Pori swimming hole, north of Tauranga last Wednesday. 

Sammy, 22, wept this week as he described his desperate efforts to revive the man he considered 鈥渓ike a brother鈥. 

Other witnesses took over giving CPR until paramedics arrived but Jontae died beside the water. 

His heartbroken family have remembered him as a loving, joyful and 鈥渜uirky鈥 person devoted to his family; an empathetic and fierce protector who had great gifts 鈥 and faced great challenges. 

They wanted people to know his 鈥減owerful鈥 story. 

鈥楬e was so joyful鈥 

Sammy said he met Jontae at 艑t奴moetai College in 2015. 

鈥淗e was so joyful and always brought a huge smile to my face. He always made me happy and made my day when he called me up for our chats.鈥 

On the evening of December 4, Sammy and Jontae went to the popular swimming hole with Jontae鈥檚 partner, 21-year-old Victoria Tupara, and friends. 

Sammy said they planned to swim and then head home to 鈥済rab a feed鈥. 

Jontae started jumping off the rocks and, after about an hour, decided to move to another pool area. 

He took a 4m-5m run-up and leapt from a rock, adopting the classic Superman pose with one clenched fist thrust out in the air, before shifting into a staple dive into the water. 

Jontae Christopher Alden, 21, died after jumping into the water at the Pori Pori swimming hole near Tauranga on December 4.Jontae Christopher Alden, 21, died after jumping into the water at the Pori Pori swimming hole near Tauranga on December 4. 

Normally, he would surface within seconds. 

鈥淚 noticed he didn鈥檛 come back up and that鈥檚 when I raced down and jumped in,鈥 Sammy said. 

鈥淚 don鈥檛 know how deep the water was but when I swam down to Jay it felt like I was swimming for ages to get to him.鈥 

He pulled Jontae on to the rocks and began CPR for what felt like the 鈥渓ongest minutes of his life鈥. Two other men took over, then paramedics arrived. 

Jontae鈥檚 parents, Krystle and Steve Harraway, understood a woman nearby called 111. 

鈥淲e don鈥檛 know who she was, but we want to thank her, Sammy and the others who made beyond-measure efforts to try to save our son,鈥 Krystle said. 

Police have referred Jontae鈥檚 death to the coroner. 

His family believed he hit his head, and Krystle said her plea to other swimmers was to always 鈥渟cope the ground before you jump鈥. 

鈥楢 very powerful message鈥 

Krystle said her only son, who she called Jay, struggled with adversity from birth and had been diagnosed with ADHD, an attention deficit disorder, with high levels of impulsiveness. 

His 鈥渜uirky nature鈥 was misunderstood by some. Knowing he would face challenges, she set out to be his 鈥渂iggest fan鈥 and ensure he had a solid foundation of support. 

鈥淭his included teaching him empathy, kindness, compassion, trust, understanding, grace and wisdom, and that is how I raised him.鈥 

Jontae Alden (third from left) pictured on a family holiday with his sister Bella (left), partner Victoria, father Steve, friend Karlise, sister Talia and, in front, mother Krystle and his 5-year-old sister NaylaJontae Alden (third from left) pictured on a family holiday with his sister Bella (left), partner Victoria, father Steve, friend Karlise, sister Talia and, in front, mother Krystle and his 5-year-old sister Nayla.

She said her 鈥渂eautiful young man鈥 grew to understand his worth and forged a relationship with Jesus Christ. 

She and Steve were proud of how he lived as 鈥渁 beacon of light and joy, like a life raft that anyone could rest on鈥. 

鈥淛ontae鈥檚 passing comes with a very powerful message and he desperately wanted to reach out as far as he could to share that message with others.鈥 

She said he stood up for everybody in need, including bullying victims, and spread 鈥渃ompassion, empathy and love wherever he went鈥. 

鈥淗e was a very fast runner, and a top athlete throughout school, I remember he ran so fast at intermediate to get an inhaler to save a kid who had an asthma attack.鈥 

He adored his sisters Talia, 19, Bella, 14, and 5-year-old Nayla, and was 鈥渢heir biggest fan and fiercely protective鈥. 

He loved taking Nayla on walks with his dog, Kado, and watching her dance at school or playing the violin. 

鈥淛ontae loved his family and was devoted to all of us, including Victoria, who is very much part of our family.鈥 

鈥楬e wanted to make the most of his life鈥 

Victoria said she met Jontae at her birthday party in 2022 and they had been inseparable ever since. They had been planning to move into their own rented home with Kado last Saturday, then get married next year. 

She said she had not known it was Jontae in trouble in the water until she began leading the ambulance staff to the hard-to-reach scene. 

鈥淲hen I was told I ran so fast and got there in two minutes flat.鈥 

Paramedics worked on him for about 30 minutes, but could not save him. 

 Jontae Alden and his devoted partner of two years, Victoria Tupara.Jontae Alden and his devoted partner of two years, Victoria Tupara. 

鈥淓veryone needs to know how much love this boy had to give and all he wanted was pure happiness for everyone, even for those who hurt him,鈥 Victoria said. 

鈥淗e wanted to make the most of his life, and to make people happy and loved, and he did.鈥 

Taup艒-born Jontae attended Golden Sands School, P膩p膩moa College and 艑t奴moetai College. Krystle said he left school at 15 and gained his NCEA Level 1 certificate through Employ NZ. He packed avocados in Te Puke and then landed a manufacturing job. 

He loved anything to do with motors, welding, fabrication, fixing and making things, and was a trophy-winning motocross rider as a youngster. His first paycheque went towards his first motorcycle. 

Krystle said he only had one speed: fast. 

鈥淗e talked and moved fast, was loud and spoke with passion. Our son did nothing slowly.鈥 

When the bike鈥檚 motor died after being 鈥渢hrashed鈥, he put a new one in, breathing 鈥渘ew life into it鈥. 

鈥淭hat鈥檚 what Jontae did to everybody he came in contact with, he breathed life into them and didn鈥檛 even realise he was doing it.鈥 

He was made redundant from the manufacturing job. He joined Krystle at Tasman Aluminium and had been happily working as a delivery driver while exploring options to pursue his dream of becoming an engineer. 

Steve Harraway said Jontae was鈥 driven to achieve鈥 in whatever opportunities he was given. 

鈥淗e was very gifted and could fix and get lots of things up and running again. He fixed anything he thought needed to be fixed, and sometimes he would push that to the limits and sometimes motors did not survive him.鈥 

Steve said they were blown away by seeing how many people turned up to the funeral on December 10 and how many lives Jontae had touched. 

The service was followed by moving haka by friends and colleagues, then a cremation. 

Mourners were asked to donate to the Freedom Centre, as Jontae had wanted to be part of the church鈥檚 men鈥檚 group. 

A family friend has set up a to help ease the grieving family鈥檚 unexpected financial burden of paying for the funeral. 

Sandra Conchie is a senior journalist at the Bay of Plenty Times and Rotorua Daily Post who has been a journalist for 24 years. She mainly covers police, court and other justice stories, as well as general news. She has been a Canon Media Awards regional/community reporter of the year. 

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