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Family of Ruthless-Empire watching videos of toddler to keep his memory alive

Author
Sam Sherwood,
Publish Date
Sun, 5 Nov 2023, 3:21pm

Family of Ruthless-Empire watching videos of toddler to keep his memory alive

Author
Sam Sherwood,
Publish Date
Sun, 5 Nov 2023, 3:21pm

Today marks two weeks since Ruthless-Empire Souljah Reign Rhind Shephard Wall died as a result of blunt force trauma. Herald senior crime reporter Sam Sherwood reports on the tragic death of Baby Ru.

The giggle of a cheeky, bubbly toddler can be heard inside Sarah Reremoana鈥檚 Taup艒 home.

The laughter is accompanied by the first few words Baby Ru is capable of saying, like 鈥渢ruck鈥 and 鈥渃ar鈥.

But rather than being able to get up off the couch and give the toddler a cuddle, Reremoana and the rest of her wh膩nau must keep sitting and watching the television waiting for the next tribute video or the next photo to appear.

鈥淭hey鈥檙e repetitive,鈥 says Reremoana.

鈥淏ut it鈥檚 just something we have to do. It鈥檚 the only way we can keep our baby alive in our hearts.鈥

Two weeks on from when Ruthless-Empire died after arriving at Hutt Hospital unresponsive from a home in the Lower Hutt suburb of Tait膩, police are yet to make any arrests. Police say he suffered severe blunt force trauma.

For Reremoana, the child鈥檚 great-aunt who took care of him for a time, what she sees on the television serves as a reminder of the beautiful little boy whose life was cut so short and of what the wh膩nau are missing out on.

鈥淲e were lucky to have done so many things with him in just those 727 days and we wish we had more days with him to do all these adventures.鈥

Ruthless-Empire was born five weeks premature. Photo / Supplied

Ruthless-Empire was born five weeks premature. Photo / Supplied

鈥楬e was such a blessing鈥

Reremoana recalls the excitement when she heard her sister鈥檚 daughter Storm Wall was set to have a little boy.

Ruthless-Empire was born five weeks premature. Reremoana met him when he was about a month old and out of hospital.

鈥淗e was very small... we had to learn how to hold him.鈥

When he was about three months old he came to live with Reremoana for the first time.

Reremoana, who has seven children of her own, aged between 8 and 28, says the baby was 鈥渏ust part of our family. He just fitted in鈥.

"He was such a blessing to have. He gave a different life in the house.

鈥淗e was just a happy little guy that would just make you smile, even at the latest time of night.鈥

The wh膩nau was there as he learned how to roll on his tummy, as he began crawling and trying to wriggle his body up to walking.

鈥淓ven when he was walking we were still trying to run for the table before him just so he wouldn鈥檛 crash into things.鈥

Baby Ruthless-Empire died in hospital on October 22. Photo / Ngatanahira Reremoana

Baby Ruthless-Empire died in hospital on October 22. Photo / Ngatanahira Reremoana

They would also take him swimming in the nearby lakes, rivers and beaches. He would also regularly visit the botanical gardens.

Wh膩nau described him as 鈥渃heeky鈥, 鈥渁dventurous鈥 and 鈥渁 little mischief鈥, lighting up whatever room he walked into.

鈥淓ven if he was standing at the edge of the deck, you鈥檇 be all freaking out and he would just turn around and smile at us. He was one of those ones, even at the edge of a bed, he would just test himself and test you,鈥 Reremoana says.

鈥淏ig bubbles of smiles, laughter, and running away and coming back.鈥

Ruthless-Empire spent his short life in several homes with wh膩nau as well as his mother. Reremoana says she would miss him dearly when he was away, but they would try to keep in touch whether it was with photos or videos or over the phone.

They would also send him packages 鈥渇ull of goodies鈥 just for him.

鈥業 suggest he be uplifted asap鈥

In December 2022, while Wall and Ruthless-Empire were living in Hamilton, Reremoana鈥檚 son, Ngatanahira Reremoana, contacted Oranga Tamariki with concerns about Ruthless-Empire, claiming his nephew did not get the 鈥渨ell-deserved care he needs鈥.

鈥淚 suggest he be uplifted asap.鈥

An intake social worker from Oranga Tamariki sent a report of concern to the Hamilton office where further assessment would take place.

Separately, a wh膩nau hui was held on May 17 this year in Hamilton to discuss removing Ruthless-Empire from the toddler鈥檚 mother鈥檚 care.

Sarah Reremoana ended up looking after Ruthless-Empire again in Taup艒 and they had him until early July when he went back into his mother鈥檚 care.

Reremoana did not know where the toddler was living in his final weeks.

The Poole St house in Tait膩, Lower Hutt, where baby Ruthless-Empire lived with three adults, Rosie Morunga (top left), Dylan Ross and Storm Wall, his mother. Photo / Mark Mitchell

The Poole St house in Tait膩, Lower Hutt, where baby Ruthless-Empire lived with three adults, Rosie Morunga (top left), Dylan Ross and Storm Wall, his mother. Photo / Mark Mitchell

In early October, Ruthless-Empire and his mother moved from Hamilton to Lower Hutt to an address where a couple, Rosie Morunga and Dylan Ross lived.

On October 22, up to 12 hours after receiving his severe injuries, Ruthless-Empire arrived at Hutt Hospital. He was pronounced dead shortly after.

Exactly what happened to Ruthless-Empire is not known.

Wall claimed in an interview with the Herald that on the evening of October 21, one of the people in the home told her to go to bed and that they would look after Ruthless-Empire.

About 10pm he was put into her bed. Wall said he 鈥渓ooked normal鈥.

鈥淚 just gave him a last hug, just checking he鈥檚 all right.鈥

When she woke the next morning, she said the toddler was 鈥渄rowsy鈥.

鈥淚 thought he was tired.鈥

Wall was getting ready to go to visit a cousin when she heard noises in the house. She claimed she was then told Ruthless-Empire was choking.

She said she tried doing first aid, 鈥渢o see if he could get any form of phlegm or anything out and therefore he was getting his grasp of breath鈥.

Wall then rushed the little boy to hospital.

Asked whether she had any part in her son鈥檚 death, Wall replied: 鈥淣o I didn鈥檛.鈥

鈥淚 just want justice for my son ... I want justice for my Ru Ru,鈥 she said.

Morunga took to Instagram on Wednesday saying she wanted to defend herself and said there would be justice for Ruthless-Empire.

As of Saturday evening, no arrests had been made.

鈥榃e just want honesty鈥

Reremoana says the past two weeks have been 鈥渁 bit unbelievable鈥. From hearing Baby Ru had died, to finding out it was a homicide investigation and then having to see him at the undertakers.

鈥淗e wasn鈥檛 the full size someone should be on one of those tables.鈥

The family then farewelled him days after what would鈥檝e been his second birthday. The wh膩nau had never had to bury someone so young, Reremoana says.

鈥淎s the days are going on and just waiting for procedures and formalities from the police it鈥檚 just making us speechless. Still feel a bit numb, the word we all used yesterday was that we felt deflated, flat.

鈥淲e鈥檙e just making sure we鈥檙e taking care of ourselves, that鈥檚 all we can sort of do to help continue this journey to get justice and arrests made for our baby.

鈥淚 think we鈥檙e getting used to this time thing but we鈥檇 like to hear something, hopefully soon.鈥

She鈥檚 aware of the strong views and opinions of people across the country.

鈥淚t鈥檚 the same emotions that we鈥檙e going through as well.

鈥淚 understand some people are sending love, we鈥檙e getting some that are sending hate. You鈥檝e got all sorts of emotions and I can relate to all their emotions. I鈥檓 angry too, I want answers, I want things like that鈥 it鈥檚 really hard.鈥

Reremoana says all the wh膩nau want is honesty.

鈥淓ven if it鈥檚 just one or two words, just tell the truth because this poor baby didn鈥檛 deserve to die this way.鈥

鈥業t鈥檚 not the same鈥

Reremoana says she often thinks about what Ruthless-Empire would be doing if he was still alive, playing at her home.

鈥淗e should鈥檝e been running up and down the hallway, trying to get our attention. One of the aunties or uncles would鈥檝e already taken him to the park and done things and eaten food.

鈥淲e always had an awesome routine with him, no matter what our daily lives brought in, he was always part of us. Sometimes he鈥檇 top the lot because he was the boss.鈥

What happened to Baby Ru can鈥檛 happen ever again, she says.

鈥淛ust to think we weren鈥檛 there to save him or help him it just breaks our heart because we could鈥檝e been there in a heartbeat just to pick him up, just to take him away from that situation.

鈥淣ow we sit here with everything in our hands, money, food everything and it鈥檚 still like all material stuff at the end of the day.鈥

As she talks about the videos and photos on the television, she says it鈥檚 cruel that all they have is memories.

鈥淣ow we don鈥檛 have any of those moments and we鈥檙e very lucky he鈥檚 got visitors every day, the cousins have been going down to see him where he鈥檚 resting but it鈥檚 still not the same.

鈥淵ou can put heaps of toys and balloons and everything on him but it鈥檚 just not the same. To have his smile, his laugh, his cheeky little voice, his singing, just the dancing alone, throwing his shoes and his bottle. Just all those things we miss of him.鈥

Sam Sherwood is a Christchurch-based reporter who covers crime. He is a senior journalist who joined the Herald in 2022, and has worked as a journalist for 10 years.

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