Ten years on from the sudden passing of their young son, a Southland family are spearheading a playground expansion on what would have been his 10th birthday.
It is the third fundraiser and working bee fronted by dairy farmers Ella and Matthew King aimed to memorialise their son Zeke, who passed away at just 14 months old from Sudden Unexplained Death in Childhood (SUDC).
SUDC is a rare diagnosis specific to children over 12 months, stemming from unexplained death following a thorough investigation.
Zeke King passed away at 15 months old, succumbing to Sudden Unexplained Death in Childhood.
On May 14, 2015, Ella King and her son had a picnic lunch with a friend at the Clinton Triangle playground, close to the town鈥檚 centre on State Highway 1, when they both commented on the lack of equipment for toddlers.
That night, after being put to bed happy and healthy, Zeke passed away quietly in his sleep.
In the months after his death, friends, family and the Clinton community rallied around Ella and Matthew, raising funds for a toddler playground that was eventually erected at the Clinton Triangle, along with a plaque in memory of Zeke.
Elle and Matthew King raised funds to build a toddler playground at the Clinton Triangle on what would have been Zeke's fifth birthday.
鈥淗is little life, 14 months, he has literally left such an imprint on so many people鈥檚 lives,鈥 said Ella King.
鈥淲e wanted to create something positive in Zeke鈥檚 memory.鈥
Among friends and family of the Kings, the playground has become affectionately known as Zeke鈥檚 Playground.
鈥淚t just reminds us no one鈥檚 forgotten about him, and we鈥檙e doing something nice in his memory for the community. People just love it, they love us, they love Zeke, and it鈥檚 very nice. It鈥檚 really special.鈥
In March of 2017, Ella and Matthew got married, and held part of their ceremony at Zeke鈥檚 Playground.
Elle and Matthew King held part of their wedding ceremony at Zeke's Playground in 2017.
In 2019, on what would have been Zeke鈥檚 fifth birthday, the King family and their community again raised funds for another piece of playground equipment, a spinning lantern, this time aimed at five-year-olds.
This year, the couple are hoping to raise funds for a new piece of equipment aimed at children around 10 years old.
鈥淲e don鈥檛 really know what he would be like or anything ... You鈥檙e just sort of thinking, 鈥業 wonder what Zeke would be like.鈥 Every day is hard, but it鈥檚 just another day for us.鈥
As well as dairy farming, the Kings also co-own the Clinton pub, which is near the playground, which Ella drives past nearly every day.
'Every day is hard, but it鈥檚 just another day for us,' says Ella King.
鈥淭here鈥檚 always kids on the playground, and strangers and adults reading the plaque, and even though they don鈥檛 know him that, they鈥檙e in that thinking of him.鈥
A working bee will take place at the playground on Zeke鈥檚 birthday in May, including a complete tidy-up of the park and the installation of the new play equipment.
Ella King said a huge number of community members came out to support the previous working bees, including labour from registered builders to install the equipment.
A working bee will take place at the playground on Zeke鈥檚 birthday in May.
Following this year鈥檚 fundraiser and working bee, King said she isn鈥檛 sure what would be next but plans to continue memorialising her son in the future through other means.
Ella said there were still many questions surrounding Zeke鈥檚 succumbing to SUDC, though his case was being included as part of a study by researchers which may help prevent the condition in the future.
鈥淭hey might find out one day why people just fall asleep and don鈥檛 wake up ... We didn鈥檛 smoke, we had good bedding, we had a warm house, we ticked all the safe sleeping rules, he didn鈥檛 sleep in our bed ... But they can still still can just fall asleep and not wake up. There are no answers to why he died.鈥
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