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John MacDonald: In 2025 you don't touch people at work

Author
John MacDonald,
Publish Date
Tue, 25 Feb 2025, 12:35pm
Photo / Mark Mitchell
Photo / Mark Mitchell

John MacDonald: In 2025 you don't touch people at work

Author
John MacDonald,
Publish Date
Tue, 25 Feb 2025, 12:35pm

Who would want to be Andrew Bayly today? 

The disgraced, now former minister, resigned because he touched a staff member during what he鈥檚 describing as an 鈥渁nimated discussion鈥.   

And now his political career is toast. As it should be, because in 2025, you just don鈥檛 touch people in the workplace.  

You don't touch people in the workplace when you鈥檙e happy with them, and you certainly don't touch people in the workplace when you鈥檙e angry with them. You just don鈥檛 do it.   

He鈥檚 staying on as the MP for Port Waikato, but he鈥檒l be gone by the next election. National won鈥檛 want a bar of him.  

Some will think there's nothing wrong with touching someone on the arm. What's so bad about that?  

I鈥檒l tell you what鈥檚 wrong with that. When you touch someone on the arm during a so-called 鈥渁nimated discussion", that鈥檚 intimidating behaviour. That鈥檚 threatening. In some circumstances, it could be considered assault.  

So you just don鈥檛 do it. But he did and he鈥檚 gone. Not completely 鈥攈e鈥檚 lurking in the backbenches鈥 but quite a downfall.   

And you might think he had it coming anyway after that incident at the vineyard where he called one of the workers a loser for still being at work after hours.  

So he鈥檚 a bit free-and-loose on it.  

And that could be a generational thing as much as anything. Because I know even in the course of my career, how much things have changed when it comes to what is and isn't acceptable in the workplace.  

I think, having started my working life in a newspaper newsroom, I鈥檓 probably a bit more lenient in my thinking.  

I certainly know that when I came back to the media after being away from newsrooms for about 14 years, I noticed how different it was, and the media certainly isn't as brutal as it used to be.  

This is in terms of people being treated with respect, and I think it's brilliant.  

I remember my first newspaper boss was what we probably called a 鈥渃olourful character鈥 back in those days.  

He called me boy. He called all the other blokes boy. He even called the women working there boy.  

Andrew Bayly is in his early-60s. So he鈥檚 from an era where people really did speak their mind the workplace, especially if they were under pressure.  

Just as Andrew Bayly and every other cabinet minister is under pressure. Because, with our three-year election cycle, this is the year of delivery for any government.  

The second year of your three-year term, time for some results. And Bayly said as much yesterday, talking about his eagerness for progress and change in his portfolio areas.  

And I know as much as anyone that working with people can be frustrating at times. That鈥檚 because we鈥檙e all different.  

But that is never an excuse for being a bully. For losing your rag. But especially it is never an excuse for grabbing someone鈥檚 arm during an 鈥渁nimated discussion鈥.  

Remembering too that, in recent years, Parliament has been exposed for bullying behaviour.  

Which is what Andrew Bayly was doing when he grabbed that staff member鈥檚 arm last week. And I don't feel sorry for him at all.    

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